Who pays for what?
The following is the traditional division for wedding expenses. Today, there are no rules in regards to financial responsibilities. The question these days of who pays for what really boils down to who is most willing and able. It may be the bride and groom or either of their families. The key is to communicate and be realistic and courteous.
BRIDE AND HER FAMILY
Wedding Gift for Groom
Wedding Ring for Groom
Gifts for Attendants
Personal Stationery
Lodging for Out-Of-Town Attendants (optional)
Bridesmaids' Luncheon
Reception Food & Drink
Bride's wedding attire and Trousseau
Invitations, Announcements & Postage
Engagement & Wedding Photographs
Rental of Sanctuary or Chapel
Organist, Soloist and Sexton Fees
Aisle Carpets and/or Canopy, and any Additional Decorating Costs
Bridesmaids' Bouquets
Transportation for Bridal Party to Ceremony & Reception
Bridal Consultant (If CaliWeddings.com isn't enough)
Music
Videography
Wedding Cake
GROOM AND HIS FAMILY
Wedding Gift for Bride
Bride's Wedding & Engagement Ring
Marriage License
Gifts for Best Man, Ushers
Bridal Bouquet and Going-Away Corsage
Boutonnieres for All Men in Wedding Party
Mothers' Corsages
Lodging for Out-Of-Town Attendants (optional)
Fee for Clergy or Judge
Honeymoon
Rehearsal Dinner
Shipment of Wedding Gifts to the Bridal Couple's New Home
Groom's Formalwear & Accessories